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GCNLP Social Club Monthly Workshop

 

 

GCNLP Social Club – Join us for this monthly half-day workshop & MeetUp and you can count your $30 Registration Fee toward membership to the NLP Skills Social Club and get access to our online knowledge data-base and receive discounts to larger training events and certifications. 

Learn to overcome social anxiety and meet like-minded people in a safe and fun environment as facilitators help you get lots of practice with language patterns, NLP Life-Change patterns, and integrate the rapport skills of highly successful people. 

Join us for this monthly MeetUp sponsored by Bill Thomason, Christopher Shiver, and the NLP Coaching & Skills Training Institute, and Global Community of NLP (GCNLP). Learn to easily persuade and influence people with integrity. 

REGISTRATION FEE is only $30 for this first monthly workshop, 9am-1pm, Saturday, November 10, 2018

If you have questions, contact Christopher Shiver 480 319-4865 or Bill Thomason 602 321-7192.

GCNLP - Global Community of Neuro Linguistic Programming

 

Flirting Skills II Workshop

Flirting Skills II Workshop

Learn How To Master Couples Communication With Our Life Coaching Sessions Designed For Singles & Dating Couples. 

Bill Thomason’s 2-Day, ‘Flirting Skills II‘ workshop will be at NLP Coaching & Skills Training Institute, Phoenix, Arizona, Saturday November 17-18, 2018. 

REGISTER NOW!  Call 602 321-7192 to register for the fun-filled, light-hearted, and playful workshop

Here’s your Flirting Skills Tip of the Month:  Effective Use of Flattery

Flattery is a powerful tool that works even when a person knows it is just said just for effect.  Obviously, it works better when flattery is sincere.  Flattery can also be mutually rewarding when executed effectively.  And, that may not be as easy to pull off as one might think.  Here are some guidelines:

  1. Notice something specific that is obviously true and attracts attention about the person.  This could be hair color, style, or length, or it could be a dress or other clothing, shoes, or physical characteristic of the person, like dimples or freckles.  It shouldn’t be the thing that everyone else has already noticed, however.    
  2. Consider what this person would most like to hear about themselves?  Get into her/his world.  If you know, or can find out, an area of  accomplishment or a hobby, or other activity that has not been overly acknowledged by other people, don’t hesitate to mention it.
  3. Once you determine what is special or unique about the person, draw attention to it.  Be playful and confident.  Tone can make a big difference in the meaning of your message.

Flattery is most effective when it is unexpected or surprises the person.  It is better that it is a compliment, although, something a little risque or critical sometimes draws attention that gets the person involved.  And keep it personal.  Telling a company owner that she is “doing great things” for her company, is nice.  But saying that you love her “sense of humor” and her “smile” is more personal and could make her day.  A first compliment could be dismissed, but more often attracts positive attention.  A second compliment may seem suspicious if not executed effectively, but when pulled off with sincerity and/or humor, can be delightful and welcome.

REGISTER NOW!: Call 602 321-7192 to register for the fun-filled playful weekend workshop with world-class NLP Trainer Bill Thomason at the NLP Coaching & Skills Training Institute, 11811 N Tatum Blvd., Phoenix, Arizona, 85028. 

MetaPrograms of Self-Actualization

MetaPrograms of Self-Actualization (an NLP weekend). The MetaPrograms of NLP are language and behavior patterns expressed in how we sort for information and similar to traits in Psychology. They tend to be simpler and easier to understand and recognize once we know the patterns. We all have different patterns in differing combinations and since they operate at an unconscious level in our programming, we expect everyone to operate based on the same patterns that we have. Miscommunications are often the result. Abraham Maslow described Self-Actualization at the top of his Needs Heirarchy and this workshop will give you an experience of being Self Actualized based on your own specific MetaPrograms for success. Bill Thomason will be your guide and trainer for this dynamic life awakening experience.

To register, call Bill at 602-321-7192

FREE NLP Wednesday Night MeetUp – Please come!

FREE NLP Wednesday Night MeetUp

Please attend the FREE NLP Wednesday Night MeetUp with NLP Master Trainer, Bill Thomason and Guest Presenter Chris Shriver sponsored by NLP Coaching & Skills Training Institute at 11811 N Tatum Blvd. #P113, Phoenix, Arizona, 85028. 

The class is 7:00-8:30pm most Wednesday evenings.  You will receive a brief introduction to NLP and come away with some specific skills that can transform your results in life and usually an experience of one the Life-Change Patterns of NLP.  Get a chance to meet Bill, see the training style, learn about upcoming events and special offers, and to decide on individual coaching sessions or to attend an upcoming workshop, or certification program in NLP, Coaching, or Hypnosis.  Call Bill at 602 321-7192

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Can Positive People Transform the World?

Mission of GCNLP:

Transform The World From The Inside Out

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How can we transform the world from chaotic self-interest, escalating violence and seemingly a bent toward destruction, to a world that is systemically peaceful, collaborative, empowering, and life affirming? Depending on your personal life filter, an argument can be made for either of these views as truth.  And you may ask, “Haven’t we made great progress as humans?” “Isn’t the world better than it was?” And then again; “Isn’t the world getting worse?’ “Why should we try?” “Why not tear the world down and start over with something else?”

I remember walking around my college campus between classes and occasionally I’d look out over the bustle of moving bodies and see someone looking back at me, meeting my eye. In the early 1970?s there were already well over 30,000 students bumping into each other at the major university I attended and occasionally the eye I would meet belonged to someone I believed to be curiously awake, aware, knowing, and conscious, looking back, as eager and fascinated as I was to connect, even if only the split second in time as the crowd moved us along. I remember reading a book about that time that suggested that, ‘there are those among us who have awakened and are conscious.’  I remember wondering what it was that those people  knew to give them such a knowing and confident twinkle of the eye.  Was there something they knew that I had not yet learned.

In accounts of stories recorded in versions of the Christian Bible in the time soon after the death of Jesus, the Apostles traveled the land preaching and also practicing ‘laying on of hands.’  In these accounts, people were ‘lifted up’ and transformed. They were spiritually healed and also physically healed.  These healings were called ‘miracles.’ How many ways, I wondered are there to change people and thereby change the world. Maybe those miracles were not so mysterious. I have met lots of modern-day people who lay their hands on other people to heal them and those who touch, inspire, and heal with words. I believe we live in a world where more people are awake and capable of creating positive change than ever before in human history.

That may sound a little naive or romanticized to some who will read this article. As I see and hear the news channels telling me of ‘more people dead in war-torn countries, or about another bombing in London, France, or Florida, or even a ‘violent robbery in my town,’ or a ‘domestic family squabble,’ or any number of other incidents that could easily be crafted into a good argument that the world is terrible place and that it’s not smart to trust your neighbors, I am aware that there are more and more people on the planet who believe that positive change can occur. It’s a matter of what we sort for in life. If we see problems and negativity as the primary force moving us, we create that reality. Making fundamental changes in parts of the world where generations of poverty and repression of basic human rights have molded belief and suppressed hope, is clearly not that easy. On the other hand, when we give people a chance, they sometimes do miraculous things or make selfless sacrifices for the benefit of others.

I have done quite a bit of corporate training work over the years in the areas of culture change and team building based largely on my work with Neuro Linguistic Programming or NLP. I remember one of my colleagues and mentors, Robert Dilts, raising the question, “Why not build a company where people really want to come to work? Or to the point of this writing, “why not build a world to which people want to belong.’

Another of my mentors, Harvey Davisson, PhD, was a Psychologist in Dallas, Texas. As a 30-something young man I worked with him to develop his weight loss-longevity business. As part of my working agreement, I learned about a methodology he was using with his patients. I have adapted that work over the years and now call it Core Decisional Repatterning©. It is a profound change technology for discovering the decisions that make up our programming and where limitations exist, installing a new, more life-enhancing decision that will cause an individual to quickly, easily and profoundly change unresourceful life patterns. People get more of what they want in life as a result.

I remember having what I assumed to be a dream around that time. In my dream, I had flown into a small airport in a third world country and was shaking hands and meeting with dignitaries including the country’s educational, financial, and other leaders. I was there to teach them how to implement these technologies for profound transformation that could change even deeply rooted beliefs causal to poverty, poor health, violent habits, and greed, to healthy, happy, productive programming that could transform entire nations. After all, if you can change individuals fundamentally, you change how families operate, how communities are organized, and how countries relate to one another.

As I learned more about NLP techniques, the ability to achieve the dream came much closer to reality. NLP is based on Behavior Modeling, a technology based on protocols for elicit the key components of expertise. “If anyone can do it; you (or I) can do it.” So, pioneers in the field of NLP including the co-founders John Grinder and Richard Bandler set about discovering the structure of experience focused on a single question, “What is excellence.” They modeled, or copied behavior of highly successful people in several fields and areas of life. Elicit enough high quality information about how an expert creates any achievement and you can install those patterns of excellence in yourself and others. Applications are endless.

In my NLP Coaching and Training practice I use a wide variety of powerful tools, including Principled (Total-Wn) Negotiating, therapeutic metaphor, Re-Imprinting, reframing, anchoring, hypnotic language skills, Core Transformation, parts integration and other conflict integration patterns, and much more. In my corporate training and coaching work, I have incorporated aspects of a breakthrough technology developed by Werner Erhart and John Hanley. I have dabbled in learning the Dream Body Work or Process-Oriented Psychology, of Arnold Mindell, and I have been exposed to complimentary modalities and sponsored practitioners of various body work and energy work modalities that can further transform human systems. In short, I think there are a number of techniques and specialized knowledge in the world and even one of these life-changing modalities can make changes in whole communities.

With these ideas in mind, I contacted a few high quality people to form a board for an association that would give people interested in NLP and related technologies a way to belong and learn skills and allow people to connect globally to others with similar interests. The Global Association of Neuro Linguistic Programming is taking on the mission to change the world and it is ‘opening doors and joining hands’ to connect like-minded people and provide education in NLP and related areas.

I am proud to announce the board. My wife, Marsha Thomason, brings a straight forward no-nonsense attitude, event planning capabilities, and a can-do spirit from her years of experience owning one of the nations top real estate and property management companies. Marsha was also winner of a national real estate selling competition for a leading franchise. I contacted Andrew Alex, with his very well-rounded intellect and clarity of thought and his years of experience as a personal injury attorney. I was pleased that he accepted my invitation and has taken ownership in contributing on many levels. Rhonda Robbins brings an understanding of the internet, social media, and marketing, and as a Certified Life Coach, she has integrated NLP techniques and understanding. Janice Palmer is an attorney and former judge in the area of family law, who is also an NLP Master Practitioner and brings deep understanding of the change process and non-adversarial approaches to highly-charged conflicts. Gregg Sobek also has combined NLP and breakthrough technology in his real estate investment business.

 

Please look for articles to follow on the topics of changing the world and about NLP and other technologies for profound personal change and business excellence.

Check out the website www.nlpskils.com for calendar of events and other resources. And, contact me personally at 602 321-7192.

Welcome to GCNLP and www.nlplifecoachphoenix.com

Due to vulnerabilities and recent changes in the way WordPress is working on the internet lately, I have discontinued the website www.nlplifecoachphoenix.com and forwarded the URL to GCNLP.com right here.  GCNLP is an active association for the benefit of the Global NLP Community.  Lots of people are at least aware of NLP and want to learn more skills and this association was created to give a focus to those desires.  In addition, you may want to visit the primary site for NLP Coaching & Skills Training Institute.  You can learn about NLP  and NLP Coaching in general, about Bill Thomason and his personal change and business training work, and you can find out about private sessions or upcoming training opportunities and you can read the Blog Articles that are posted there on the website.

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